Not really familiar with the term WILF? Think Milf but Wife instead of Mother. Think about the Ms. Parker from "FRIDAY". That's right. Let's be honest, we all aspire to be eye candy to the opposite sex, arm candy to our significant others, and secretly "that bitch" to all our friends that want to look like us. I've been watching The Biggest Loser and I have been hearing that same thing over and over again that I am unable to identify with.
"This isn't about being thin or looking good, its about being healthy and feeling good about yourself"~~~ Any given person.
This is bullshit. People kill me with that. I'm not talking about the severely overweight people who are in danger of dying or having long term health issues, because that is another story altogether. I am talking about everyone else.
I have never been "really out of shape". I was always active; cheerleading, track, dance, ect. I tried to go to the gym on a pretty regular basis. Granted, I was no where near as fit as I am now, but I definitely wasn't on the verge of any major health issues. In fact, when I first began trying to get rid of this weight I went to get a physical and even the doctor was surprised that I was so damn healthy (considering I was almost 300lbs). So yea, I was just fat as hell and I knew it. Hell everyone knew it. So needless to say there was really only one reason I wanted to lose weight.
Sexy is as sexy does. When it comes down to it, that was, and continues to be, my main focus. Of course I like that I can run longer and faster, I no longer feel tired and gross after I eat (because I don't eat crap) and I love that I can do the hell out of workouts like INSANITY and TURBO FIRE. But at the end of the day, the thing I like the most, IS HOW I LOOK IN MY FREAKING CLOTHES!
The point is, WILF-dom is what I am shooting for. You stick with what motivates you and I will do the same. For me, its high heels, sleek business suits, and the skinniest skinny jeans in the world lol (but I keep the booty).